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HIDE AND SEEK
LOOK AND SEE Earlier this year, I created a self-portrait collage for a creative vitality class that I enrolled in. On the day it was due, I felt compelled to black out the irises and pupils in an infant photo of me. I am learning to trust my creative spirit, so I did it—then spent months wondering why. The pupil is the dark opening at the center of the iris. Working with the lens, it admits light to the retina: widening in dimness, narrowing in brightness. Emotion and cert
Gwen Henderson
6 days ago


IS IT WORTHY OF WORSHIP?
IS IT WORTHY OF WORSHIP The title may have made you wonder whether you should keep reading. It sounds a little “church-y,” doesn’t it? Certainly, worship can refer to church or religious things. But a study of the word reveals that this was not always the case. For centuries, it was used as a title and only gradually became associated with church or religion. Worship is showing deep love, respect, and honor to someone or something. Through our words and actions, we treat
Gwen Henderson
Oct 4


BURNING OR JUST GLOWING
Are You Burning—or Just Glowing? My predawn ritual begins with lighting a fragrant candle that sits atop a four-shelf bookcase. A few months ago, that ritual changed. For a milestone birthday two years earlier, a friend gifted me an electric candle warmer lamp. “Hmm,” I thought, “nice gift, but I am never going to use it.” I liked striking a match, touching it to the wick, and watching the flame catch. So, I continued buying candles. Then, while cleaning one day, the discar
Gwen Henderson
Sep 27


BOUNDARIES
BOUNDARIES People who do not know how to set them will often make a habit of crossing yours. Those without boundaries may not see the need or value in creating them for themselves, and what is deemed valueless is rarely respected. If allowed, they will disrupt your routine, distract your focus, and disturb your environment. TRUTH: Their lack of boundaries is not their problem to solve. It becomes my problem when I allow it to invade my peace. Therefore, if it is to be solved,
Gwen Henderson
Jul 26


THE HABIT OF NOT
THE HABIT OF NOT NOT - hearing, seeing, being present, living authentically, risking, being kind, slowing down, releasing dead things. The NOTS of life have an enigmatic way of becoming KNOTS , potentially clogging the flow of life like a blood clot in an artery. STOP! Identify a KNOT that may impede your path to being the healthiest, happiest, and strongest person possible in this season of life. Is the identified KNOT related to a habit of NOT ? Perhaps you were
Gwen Henderson
Apr 5


IN AND OUT
IN AND OUT If one doesn’t let stuff go or take stuff in – death becomes one’s reality. TRY THIS. Take a deep breath. Hold it for as long as possible. For most that will be around thirty seconds. The exception is someone trained for underwater emergencies. They can hold their breath for up to two minutes. What is inhaled must be exhaled or death is a certainty. If nothing is inhaled there in nothing to exhale, death is a certainty. Breathing, the thing that we do as much
Gwen Henderson
Mar 22


SHOW RESPECT
SHOW RESPECT Show TODAY the respect that it deserves. How? By respecting the pace of the day. How? By not rushing forward into...
Gwen Henderson
Apr 27, 2025


BELIEVE IT OR NOT
BELIEVE IT OR NOT If you are able – before reading the words below – do me a favor. Become a tourist in the space where you are at this...
Gwen Henderson
Feb 17, 2025


GIFT GIVING
GIFT GIVING My birthday is about a month before Christmas so I don’t get caught in the trap of one gift for both, not that it would...
Gwen Henderson
Dec 23, 2024


PLAYMATE
PLAYMATE I don’t know how or when she became a part of the family next door. What I do know is she visited me one day, sat on the...
Gwen Henderson
Dec 2, 2024


MEANWHILE
MEANWHILE I am a fan of the late-night TV host, Stephen Colbert. I like his monologue, but I love the segment that often follows it,...
Gwen Henderson
Mar 24, 2024


THIRD THURSDAY
Thank you for allowing me to share a snapshot of this journey. I will return to writing about other things next week. I went to bed...
Gwen Henderson
Feb 12, 2024


HAPPY MONDAY
HAPPY MONDAY They have filled our mailbox for the last three months. ‘Tis the season for catalogs. I didn’t complain about the trees that...
Gwen Henderson
Dec 25, 2023


NIGHTINGALES, PEACOCKS, AND HUMMINGBIRDS
NIGHTINGALES, PEACOCKS, AND HUMMINGBIRDS Sometimes when reading, a line will be so intriguing that I stop reading and do research. Such...
Gwen Henderson
Oct 1, 2023
IRENE'S LAMP
IRENE’S LAMPS My maternal grandmother, Irene, died after being bedridden for a long period with lung cancer during my ninth summer. Born...
Gwen Henderson
May 29, 2023
DO YOU KNOW?
PRACTICE: Why are you here? Many of us will have trouble answering these questions. Some of us will give one of those pat and pretty...
Gwen Henderson
Jul 12, 2020
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